tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-99400039966124695.post1007616296399034454..comments2023-12-13T02:23:37.161-05:00Comments on Baby Rachel's Legacy: After Asa's Born....Rachel's Mamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05085949875951256158noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-99400039966124695.post-73579526349263917682011-10-25T10:17:08.416-04:002011-10-25T10:17:08.416-04:00I agree with the first post. You have every right...I agree with the first post. You have every right to set boundaries! (side note, I put a sign on the door and disconnected the doorbell when I needed quiet time or the babies were sleeping)Bekahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15597107100103697798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-99400039966124695.post-84748108296738245942011-10-25T07:52:58.317-04:002011-10-25T07:52:58.317-04:00These are all normal feelings IMO for what you hav...These are all normal feelings IMO for what you have been thru. I was very protective of Lainey after she was born and now that she is over a year I am finally relaxing a little. Just take this journey a day at a time and a moment at a time.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-99400039966124695.post-53437259154455968002011-10-25T07:29:21.171-04:002011-10-25T07:29:21.171-04:00<3<3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-99400039966124695.post-84570262813415479822011-10-24T13:41:20.152-04:002011-10-24T13:41:20.152-04:00Stacy, I was hoping to see you when I was visiting...Stacy, I was hoping to see you when I was visiting Grace last weekend. I got to see Rachel's playground, but I was really hoping to see you, to hear about your girl and to pray with you and for you. I appreciate the way you are sharing and it is helping me to see others around me differently, maybe more compassionately. Your desire to honor Jesus and your beautiful daughter are a gift. Hopefully next time I am in NH I will see you and you can tell me more about Rachel.<br />Stacy PaolellaSZPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03606643048023666607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-99400039966124695.post-42115703357879258902011-10-24T11:16:41.272-04:002011-10-24T11:16:41.272-04:00I don't comment on comments usually, but this ...I don't comment on comments usually, but this one just ministered to my heart more than you know. thank you ♥Rachel's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05085949875951256158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-99400039966124695.post-81278530110977177142011-10-24T11:03:42.870-04:002011-10-24T11:03:42.870-04:00Not that you need my approval, dear one. But ... y...Not that you need my approval, dear one. But ... you are absolutely justified in setting boundaries. It's ok to have boundaries even in a "normal" situation, and much more so now. God has a way of showing us the relationships that are built on His love, and those that are not. If people choose to judge you or let their expectations encroach upon your feelings and desires, then that's a reflection of their own selfish thoughts, not yours. Personal experience tells me that Asa's birth, no matter how anticipated or how much you love him, is going to open a whole new door of grief in regard to your precious girl. I'll be praying that God gives you peace, and that you can be so focused on looking up at Him that you forget to look around at others. =) God bless you and hold your tender heart my sweet sister.jsco31https://www.blogger.com/profile/01584387447434010230noreply@blogger.com